Moving House with a Cat: A Guide to Reducing Stress
Cats are territorial creatures. Their sense of safety is tied to their environment—their scent on the sofa, their view from the window, their hidden napping spots. When you move house, you aren't just changing their address; you are destroying their known world.
This explains why moving is a top trigger for behavioral issues like litter box avoidance and aggression. It is also the #1 time cats get lost (escaping out open doors).
Here is the step-by-step protocol to move your cat safely.
Phase 1: The Packing (Weeks Before)
Cats hate boxes being moved. It disrupts their scent map.
- Leave Boxes Out: Let them play in the boxes weeks before you pack. Make boxes "fun" rather than "scary predictors of doom."
- Feliway: Plug in a Feliway (pheromone) diffuser in the main room.
- The Carrier: Do NOT wait until moving day to bring out the carrier. Leave it open with treats inside. (See our Carrier Training guide).
Phase 2: Moving Day (The Danger Zone)
With movers opening doors constantly, this is when escapes happen. The "Safe Room" Rule:
- Choose a room (bathroom or bedroom) that will be emptied last.
- Put the cat in there with: Litter box, food, water, bed, carrier.
- LOCK THE DOOR. Tape a sign on it: "DO NOT OPEN. CAT INSIDE."
- Pack the rest of the house. The cat stays safe and away from the noise.
Phase 3: The Transport
- Load the cat last.
- Car Ride: Cover the carrier with a light towel. Visual blocking reduces motion sickness and fear.
- Temperature: Ensure the car is cool/warm before putting them in.
Phase 4: Arrival (The New "Safe Room")
Do NOT open the carrier in the living room and let them roam. Usually, a scared cat will find a hole (behind the fridge, inside a vent) and disappear for days.
- Set up a Safe Room first: Ideally the master bedroom or a bathroom.
- Set up their old litter box (do not change litter type right now) and old bed (scent is crucial).
- Release the cat into this ONE room.
- Close the door.
- Unpack the rest of the house.
- Stay: Keep them in this room for 2-3 days minimum.
Phase 5: Scent Swapping and Release
The new house smells wrong (paint, cleaning chemicals, previous pets).
- Scent Soakers: Rub a clean sock on your cat's cheeks (where happy pheromones are). Rub that sock on the corners of the walls in the rest of the house at cat height. You are artificially spreading their scent.
- Explore: After 3 days, open the door. Let them explore at their own pace.
- Retreat: Keep the Safe Room door open so they can run back if scared.
Medications?
If your cat is high-stress, ask your vet about Gabapentin. It is a safe, mild sedative/anti-anxiety med given 2 hours before travel. It can make the difference between a traumatized cat and a sleepy one.
Conclusion
Moving is a marathon, not a sprint. By confining their world to one room initially, you give them back their sense of control. Let them conquer the Safe Room, then the hallway, then the house.
